And I'm hoping that we don't have to deal with the same stuff in Iowa. Y'know, I'm not sure I'm allowed to have a dog in this fight - we've been married less than 25 years. If it helps, my folks, married well over 50 years, have made it plain in many venues that they think everyone should get to experience the priveleges and pains of marriage.

As my mom said, "So two people of the same sex promising to love and care for one another debases my marriage, but the multiple infidelities before a messy divorce of the neighbors down the street doesn't?"