If you're tired of saying your own name, use some others. Rhonda, Antoine, Tiffany . . . you can use Mike too if you like. Or perhaps something on the extravagant side? Madam La Bouffant? Gold Bullion?

Go ahead, philander a bit. (Hum, I don't think that's exactly the right word - a lightning bug instead of lightning. Although fond of men seems almost right :-)

Oh, go look up the great discussion of names in Panshin's - Star Well or Masque World. Then feel free to use the right name.