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Social Saturday
Saturday, May 2nd, 2026 11:41 amSaturday. Rainy and cool.
Just back from the TJ Maxx members party. I'm old enough to remember going with my Flapper Grandmother (as distinct from my Church Grandmother) to the big department store galas in downtown Baltimore.
This? Was not that. For the Big Department Stores (for students of history, that would have been: Hecht Company, Hochchild Kohn, Hutzler's, and Stewart's, with Hecht's being the Lesser and Hochchild's being the Greater. My personal favorite was Stewart's. But I digress.)
For the Big Department Store events, I say, one Dressed. Not in evening wear, but in what my grandmother styled as Afternoon Clothes. For me at that time, it was the pickiest, scratchiest dress in my closet, white anklets, and the good patent leather shoes. For my grandmother, the Season had to be taken into account, but I remember her most often in a flowered frock, with matching hat, purse, and shoes. I've never seen a woman before or since who loved a flowered frock quite so much.
There was a catered tea, and fashion shows, and cooking demonstrations, and nicely dressed sales people pleased to Direct You, or even take you to this or that visiting expert -- it was quite lovely. Almost worth the scratchy dress.
TJ Maxx's event was not that, though I noted several members dressed in suits. I was in grey jeans, a nice purple fleece pullover, and the hard black shoes, because -- raining.
I did get a Free Gift -- an insulated lunch bag which will actually be useful. I did not win a door prize. The group was friendly; I was given a quick rundown on what I could expect from the person ahead of me in the line to sign up for the drawing, which was both useful and very kind of her.
I went with the expectation of not buying anything, but! This morning, I discovered that the refrigerator (the sole appliance that came with the house that is still (fingers crossed) functioning) has stopped making ice cubes. So I did need ice cube trays, and I bought a great pair of Oxo ice cube trays with slide-on lids, so I can stack them on a shelf.
It's a matter for the philosophers, if I actually needed the bath towel, the illustrated guide to the Victorian Language of the Flowers (which replaces one that I had, but apparently gave away), the coloring book, or the embroidery kit (embroider and assemble a canvas bag! How can anybody resist that?). I can, however, make a good case for the dryer vent brush, the sink stones, and the adjustable chair sliders. Oh, and the hairbrush. One does, after all, need to groom oneself.
All of the above, in fact, demonstrate the danger of this particular event -- there were so few of us in the store, I felt no pressure to rush or to get out of peoples' way. I could just moon about in my preferred style, Stare at Stuff, pick it up, establish a relationship with it, and part friends. (It comes to me that the Mooning About Thing is why I love to visit museums, though of course, I'm not allowed to touch stuff.)
So, in sum -- a nice hourish outing. I'm home, have greeted the cats, put my purchases away and eaten a cookie. I'm now free to do what seems good to me until 2ish, when I expect a contractor to arrive.
How's your Saturday starting out?
Dressed to shop:
P.S. The Big Question on Facebook was "What are sink stones?" These are sink stones. They are not the actual sink stones I bought, because -- TJ Maxx, but they're of the family.
